How Well Do You Know Your Partner? 80+ Questions
80+ how well do you know your partner questions, from favorite foods to biggest dreams. Play the two-player mode above to get a couple score, or use the lists for a date night.
How to Play How Well Do You Know Your Partner
How well do you know your partner, really? This game turns that question into a score. You can play it as a two-player quiz on one phone or just read the questions out loud.
- Enter both names and pick how many questions.
- Each round, one person guesses the other's answer out loud. The person being asked should think of their real answer first.
- The answerer taps Got it right or Missed it. Players swap roles every question.
- At the end you both see your individual scores and a combined couple score.
Nothing is saved or sent anywhere. It all runs on this page.
Tips for a Better Game
- Start with easy questions to warm up, then mix in medium and hard ones.
- Be generous with close answers; the point is connection, not trivia.
- When someone misses, let the other person tell the story behind the real answer.
- Play again in a few months and see if your couple score goes up. Asking how well do you know your partner every so often keeps you curious about each other.
80+ Questions to Test How Well You Know Your Partner
Easy: Favorites and Everyday Life
Warm-up questions. A couple that has been together a few months should get most of these.
- What is your partner's favorite food?
- What is your partner's go-to coffee or drink order?
- What is your partner's favorite color?
- What is your partner's favorite movie?
- What is your partner's favorite season?
- What is your partner's middle name?
- What is your partner's shoe size?
- What is your partner's favorite snack?
- What is your partner's favorite TV show right now?
- Is your partner a morning person or a night owl?
- What is your partner's favorite dessert?
- What is your partner's favorite way to spend a Sunday?
- What is your partner's favorite holiday?
- What is your partner's favorite band or singer?
- Which app does your partner use the most?
- What is your partner's favorite animal?
- What is your partner's pizza topping of choice?
- What is your partner's biggest pet peeve?
- What is your partner's favorite restaurant?
- What is your partner's favorite sport or game?
- What is your partner's favorite piece of clothing?
- What is your partner's dream car?
- Does your partner prefer cats or dogs?
- What is your partner's birthday?
- What is your partner's favorite book?
- What is your partner's least favorite chore?
- What is your partner's favorite scent?
- How does your partner take their eggs?
- What is your partner's favorite emoji?
- What would your partner order at a fast-food drive-through?
Medium: History and Habits
Harder. These reward people who listen to the stories.
- What was your partner's first job?
- What was your partner's childhood nickname?
- What is your partner's most-used phrase?
- What was your partner's favorite subject in school?
- What is your partner's hidden talent?
- What is your partner's biggest fear?
- Who was your partner's first celebrity crush?
- What is the best trip your partner has ever taken?
- What was your partner's dream job as a kid?
- What is your partner's most treasured possession?
- Who is your partner's best friend?
- What is your partner's comfort movie?
- What is your partner's love language?
- What is your partner's go-to karaoke song?
- What did your partner want to be when they grew up?
- Which family member is your partner closest to?
- What is one food your partner will never eat?
- What does your partner do when they are stressed?
- What was your partner's first car?
- What is your partner's favorite memory from childhood?
- What is your partner's most embarrassing moment?
- Where was your partner born?
- What is your partner's favorite thing about themselves?
- What was your partner's first impression of you?
- What is the best gift your partner has ever received?
- What is your partner's favorite way to be comforted?
- What is your partner's biggest splurge?
- Which song does your partner always skip?
- What is your partner's favorite date you have been on?
- What does your partner order on your usual takeout night?
Hard: Dreams, Values and Secrets
The real test. Getting these right means you know what is going on inside.
- What is your partner's biggest dream for the next five years?
- What is something your partner is insecure about?
- What is the proudest moment of your partner's life?
- What does your partner value most in a friendship?
- What would your partner do if they won a million dollars?
- What is one thing your partner would change about their past?
- What makes your partner feel most loved?
- What is your partner's biggest regret?
- Where would your partner live if they could live anywhere?
- What is your partner's definition of success?
- What is something your partner has always wanted to learn?
- What quality does your partner admire most in other people?
- What was the hardest year of your partner's life?
- What would your partner say is their biggest strength?
- What does your partner worry about when they cannot sleep?
- What is one thing your partner wants you to understand better?
- What would your partner's perfect day look like, from start to finish?
- What is a cause your partner deeply cares about?
- Who has had the biggest influence on your partner's life?
- What is one thing your partner has never told anyone but you?
Frequently Asked Questions
How does the How Well Do You Know Your Partner scoring work?
Each correct guess is one point for the guesser. Your couple score is the share of all questions either of you got right. It's a game, not a measure of your relationship.
What is a good how well do you know your partner score?
Anything above 65% means you know each other well. Low scores are common for new couples and just mean there is more to talk about.
Can we play this over video call?
Yes. One person runs the game on their screen and reads the questions out loud; the other guesses.
Should we take the love language test too?
It pairs well. Guess each other's result first, then both take the love language test and compare.